Friday, March 8, 2013

Everyone's a Critic

Criticism..Is something I don't handle well. I tend to take it personally, even when it is good  constructive criticism. Not that I think I am always right. And not saying I need to be handled with kid gloves either. But I think it is human nature to not liking being told you did/said something wrong.

The other day I came across a blog about this very subject. I found it awesome and very good advice,   for myself but especially those who are very much in a public role. I think mostly of friends who are in a ministry type of role. You are leading somewhere up to 200 people who all have a different idea of how a church should be lead. You are gonna get support and criticism. So I encourage you all to read this blog post. Both on how to take criticism and also how to give it. I think I might post this on  my fridge and re-title it "Don't be a Troll Today!!"

It is called "Three types of Critics". Not a long read but a gooder.

** Just a side note I do not know anything about this blogger, I just found it through another blogger I follow - Jamie the Very Worst Missionary- who is by the way a great and very funny blogger.

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Little princess wish list

-Horse t shirts size 12- she is starting to fit ladies extra small but they have to be a small cut and not a big gaping neckline ( More big girl/ladies styles not little girl, Out here Cowtown has some nice ones)

Heartland T V series DVD . She has Seasons, 1,2,4,9

Big dude Wish List

--NHL Hockey cards, really any brand

--Bulk Lego ( new or used)

--Lego mats

--Lego gift cards



Trevor's list

*Jets big fist can coozie around $35 Jersey city
*self rollback airhose reel
*mig welder
*headphones -good for running
The following is for the"Man Room":
He wants a classy contemporary lounge type feel
-set of glasses/mugs--(ie Jets or Team Canada Hockey)
-items needed to use when having guests over to watch, "The Big Game"
-Sports paraphernalia (no strong themes) some specific teams are: jets, Bombers, team canada, old logo canucks(black and yellow), Elm Creek Kernels. ** He has a Team Canada Jersey and an old logo Jets Jersey and new Jets Jersey**

Melanie 's wish List


* caramel and vanilla or mint chocolate or cinnamon flavoured marshmellows
*Gift cards for Marshalls/Winners/Homesense